saddlebum Posted January 28, 2011 Share #1 Posted January 28, 2011 As you all know my father has been in the hospital for just over three months. Today at 2:30 pm my father quietly passed away. His body just seemed to decide it had enough and shut down. I never thought I would suddenly feel such a huge emptyness as I did when he slipped away. My Father has been a big part of my life and I know everytime I swing a carpenters hammer to drive a nail or saw a piece of wood I am going to feel his absence, because everything I learned about building houses I learned from him. His favourite phrases were always 1- a job worth doing is worth doing right. and 2-never trust another mans tape measure. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
relic Posted January 28, 2011 Share #2 Posted January 28, 2011 Our deepest condolences Ben. It is never easy even if we know it is near. We will keep you and your family in our thoughts and prayers. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
painterman67 Posted January 28, 2011 Share #3 Posted January 28, 2011 Sorry to hear this Ben, I understand your pain as I feel the same way everyday. I miss my dad too. But enough about me as Im nit the important one now. You and your family are. At least he passed easily . Its not much of a statement I know but the pain is gone and your dad is in a better place and now he gets to work with the carpenter i heaven(jesus). PEace be with you and all your family. We are here if you need us. Prayesrs sent once again. David Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kregerdoodle Posted January 28, 2011 Share #4 Posted January 28, 2011 so sorry to hear, your Father is pounding nails with a Golden Hammer now and he will always be with you!! You and your family are in our Prayers. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mraf Posted January 28, 2011 Share #5 Posted January 28, 2011 Sorry to hear of your loss. It is never easy losing a parent. I'm sure he will be remembered and missed by many. Sincerest Sympathy. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Freebird Posted January 28, 2011 Share #6 Posted January 28, 2011 I just never know what to say in these situations. Please just know that you are in our thoughts and prayers. We do care. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BIG TOM Posted January 28, 2011 Share #7 Posted January 28, 2011 Sorry to hear of the loss of your father....Prayers send on his and your family's behalf.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Art708 Posted January 28, 2011 Share #8 Posted January 28, 2011 I'm sorry for your loss. I can empathize with you, I lost my Mom and my sister within a year. They have been gone since '07 and '08 and I still miss them. You'll always remember your Dad and the memories will get sweeter as time passes. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Drreb Posted January 28, 2011 Share #9 Posted January 28, 2011 Ben, I am so sorry for your loss. May God's abundant grace be with you and your family during this difficult time. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Squidley Posted January 28, 2011 Share #10 Posted January 28, 2011 (edited) Ben, Words always seem inadequate at times like these, we have all lost loved ones, but it's never easy to let them go. Your Father fought a heroic battle, which unfortunately did not turn out like your family wanted it to. I think the one thing I would say is to take the time you had with him in the end and cherish that. I'm sure there were conversations that helped to complete the time you and he had left. As always, you and your family are in our thoughts my friend, lean on us should you need to, knowing that we are here for whatever you need....all the best. Edited January 28, 2011 by Squidley Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
1joeranger Posted January 28, 2011 Share #11 Posted January 28, 2011 Hard realizing someone who was bigger than life is gone! I love and miss mine! I know you and the rest here love and miss yours! Peace and prayers brother!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CaptainJoe Posted January 28, 2011 Share #12 Posted January 28, 2011 Ben prayers sent to you and yours. Lost my father 8 years ago. It does leave a hole, but that's a good thing as you and others will always lovingly remember him. Sounds like you're already quoting him. My dads favorite was "Do it right the first time or do it over!" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PBJ Posted January 28, 2011 Share #13 Posted January 28, 2011 So sorry to hear about your dads passing. Yes it can be a terrible loss. I lost my father 24 years ago. But he wasn't into carpentry, or baseball or sports in general. he had been a single child with no brothers or sisters. And so he wasn't demonstrative in Love as he might have been. He worked hard and was there when we needed him. After he developed cancer and the doctors did their work there was nothing left to do. I decided to make sure he always knew he was Loved. With a big hug I'd say good by whenever he visited. I never knew if I'd see him again each time we separated. It made the final good bye much easier. I hop your final good bye was an easy one. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Aussie Annie Posted January 28, 2011 Share #14 Posted January 28, 2011 Sending our heartfelt condolences to you, and your family Ben. The loss of a parent is never easy -- no matter how old you are. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ragtop69gs Posted January 28, 2011 Share #15 Posted January 28, 2011 Our condolences to you, Ben. When the heartache fades, you'll be left with many fond memories you'll carry with you till the end of day's. Peace be with you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chabicheka Posted January 28, 2011 Share #16 Posted January 28, 2011 Very sorry to hear the sad news, Ben. May your dad's soul rest in peace. Please keep us neighbours posted of funeral arrangements. Abdul. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wizard765 Posted January 28, 2011 Share #17 Posted January 28, 2011 Ben: Sorry to hear about your father's passing. God be with you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MikeWa Posted January 28, 2011 Share #18 Posted January 28, 2011 Sorry to hear this. Our prayers are with you. Mike Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Marcarl Posted January 28, 2011 Share #19 Posted January 28, 2011 Thanks for posting this Ben, it's been tough on you and your family, but it's also great to note that you are all one together. Spend a bit of time with your Creator at a time like this, I think you'll find Him to be a peace that passes all understanding. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Aimhigh Posted January 28, 2011 Share #20 Posted January 28, 2011 I am sorry for the loss of your father. Prayers are with you for strength to see you through your sorrow. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
XV1100SE Posted January 28, 2011 Share #21 Posted January 28, 2011 My condolences on the passing of your father. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Carbon_One Posted January 28, 2011 Share #22 Posted January 28, 2011 Know that you and family in our thoughts and prayers. May Dad rest in peace now with the Lord and that he watches over his family. Larry Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Venturous Randy Posted January 28, 2011 Share #23 Posted January 28, 2011 Ben, you know that your family here has been with you in thoughts and prayers. Many of us have also lost one or both of our parents and know how difficult it is for you. Your comment about the hammer brought back memories of my dad. After his passing 10 years ago, I bought the house from the estate and even now, there are many memories that come back to me, especially when out in the garage. I just know I feel very fortunate that we had the relationship we did and you will cherish that also. RandyA Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Eck Posted January 28, 2011 Share #24 Posted January 28, 2011 Ben, You have my deepest condolences, and you are in our thoughts and prayers. Eck Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Yammer Dan Posted January 28, 2011 Share #25 Posted January 28, 2011 I'm sorry Ben. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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