Steve,
This dreaded disease is all too familiar to me and my family. I lost a mother, brother, and a baby sister to different kinds of cancer and I know the pain, suffering, and agony it can bring to the person as well as those waiting by the beside. No words are sufficient, but know this, that I will pray for you and your loved ones in this your greatest challenge. I believe that He, who holds tomorrow, will give you the strength to go through today and the days to come. All the best brother.