Wrongway Posted February 27, 2007 Share #1 Posted February 27, 2007 I thank you all my friends on Venturerider.org. I sit here totally numb right now, I have just lost the love of my life. Debbie passed away during the night. It was totally unexpected. I don't know what to do. I have family with me and that helps, but the loss is already so bad I can't imagine it getting worse. Many of you knew her and she was glad to know you as friends, a couple that deserve special mention are Cinderella, Jane (Boo's wife), Sweet Nothing and Linda Predock. Even if she didn't always keep in touch, she had a special place in her heart for you. I'm sure there are others but I'm kind of spacey right now. I may not respond here but know that I will be harvesting the love and care that you send our way in this time of sadness. Thanks for being here for her and me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sweetnothing Posted February 27, 2007 Share #2 Posted February 27, 2007 Allan, I don't know what to say!! I am soo sorry! She will be missed by all that knew her! She was a wonderful person! If there is anything we can do for you, please let us know! Let us know of the arrangements, when and where please! Our thaughts and prayers are with you, and your family! If you need anything please call me 810-531-4243. Even if it's just to talk to someone! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Black Owl Posted February 27, 2007 Share #3 Posted February 27, 2007 Allan. Words are not enough to express the saddness I feel as I share your sorrow at this time. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Freebird Posted February 27, 2007 Share #4 Posted February 27, 2007 This leaves me absolutely speechless. I truly enjoyed the time that I was able to spend with both of you at Vogel last year. She was truly a special lady. Please know that you and the rest of the family are in our prayers. If there is anything...ANYTHING that we can do for you ... please let us know. My telephone number is in the members list. Call if you need anything. If you read this, please let us know the arrangements...time...place...etc. Don Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gibvel Posted February 27, 2007 Share #5 Posted February 27, 2007 So sad to hear this news Allan. God bless you with comfort in this trying time!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest VentureCruiser Posted February 27, 2007 Share #6 Posted February 27, 2007 Allan, very sorry for your loss. Spend lots of time with family and friends, you need them at this time. Our prays and thoughts are with you. Dale Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest eric the red Posted February 27, 2007 Share #7 Posted February 27, 2007 Allan, I never met you or your wife, but you do have my deepest sympathies... I am getting married in 2 months, and could not imagine the pain of losing her. I hope your family can comfort you in this very trying time. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Yammer Dan Posted February 27, 2007 Share #8 Posted February 27, 2007 At a time like this it is hard to say anything that will help. Our prayers are with you. Please know that we are with you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Eddie Posted February 27, 2007 Share #9 Posted February 27, 2007 Allen , Im very sorry to hear this terrible news. I also had the pleasure of meeting Debbie at Vogel. Allen, I with the rest of your family here , if there is anything I can do to help let me know. Eddie Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
f6ryder Posted February 27, 2007 Share #10 Posted February 27, 2007 Our lives,measured against eternity,are just seconds.We don't cry for the loved ones lost,but for the empty space it will leave in our lives.Remember we ALL WILL be together again,and the ride we take will be the best ever.God Bless... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cinderella Posted February 27, 2007 Share #11 Posted February 27, 2007 allan please check your pm's................ I am in shock..............and without words right now. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Crash Posted February 27, 2007 Share #12 Posted February 27, 2007 Allan, I am so sorry to hear of your loss. Our prayers go out to you and your family. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SaltyDawg Posted February 27, 2007 Share #13 Posted February 27, 2007 Alan, it goes without saying that our prayers are with you and your family. I can't imagine what you are going through right now. Stay strong!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pegstr Posted February 27, 2007 Share #14 Posted February 27, 2007 Allan, No words will help at this time, but I am in such shock and so sorry. My thoughts and prayers are with you, my friend. It is not an easy road ahead, but keep your faith and God will see you thru it. Keep your family close as they will be your crutch and your strength in the months ahead. I am so sorry that you are going thru this. My heart aches for you. You feel free to call me at anytime. There will be times you need to talk and I will be glad to listen. My number is on your pm. If I do not answer, I will return your call as soon as I get your message. I would like to be a part of your crutch as all of you were mine at my time of loss. It meant so much. I am so glad that I got to meet Debbie at the ride ins. She was so precious and I appreciate the way y'all tucked me under your wing, as I needed someone to lean on. Seriously Allan, give me a call anytime, day or night. I will be there for you. Please let all of us know the arrangements. Thanks for letting me know and may God comfort you to the best of his ability. Take care my friend, Mike Pegstr Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Boomer Posted February 27, 2007 Share #15 Posted February 27, 2007 Alan, thoughts and prayers for you and the family are sent from Tennessee... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PEIslander Posted February 27, 2007 Share #16 Posted February 27, 2007 Allan, I can't begin to understand your grief and loss at this time but have passed on a prayer for you that God will sustain you through this difficult trial. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest SofaPilot Posted February 27, 2007 Share #17 Posted February 27, 2007 Allan, As others here have said...Keep your faith close to your heart. You will need it to try to make sense of this tragic event. We will keep you and Debbie in our prayers. Death hides - But it cannot divide, Thou art but on Christ's other side. Thou with Christ And Christ with me And so together Still are we. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lateralvibe Posted February 27, 2007 Share #18 Posted February 27, 2007 Allen, So sorry to hear of your loss.Words will not help much at this time, but our thoughts and prayers go out to you and yours today and in the days to come. From across the state, Paul & Gail Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest CJVenture Posted February 27, 2007 Share #19 Posted February 27, 2007 Allanh, I have never met you or your dear wife, but at a time like this it really doesn't matter, does it? The important thing is that you know we are brothers, and as your brother my prayers are with you. I almost lost my wife to cancer ten years ago, so I think I have some sense of how you feel: sort of surreal, like this can't be happening! Thank God my wife survived, but not without giving me a real sense of empathy for people who lose the thing(person) they cherish most. Please, just know our prayers are with you, and know also that God loves you more than you will ever know. Charlie Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cerviperus Posted February 27, 2007 Share #20 Posted February 27, 2007 While I've never met either of you, know that thoughts and prayers are headed your way from Illinois. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cecdoo Posted February 27, 2007 Share #21 Posted February 27, 2007 Allen, I am very sorry to hear this news. Try to think of all the great memories you two made together and how fortunate you were to get the time you had with her. You will be in my thoughts. Take care, Craig Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Al Bates Posted February 27, 2007 Share #22 Posted February 27, 2007 Unbelievable, how could this happen. What a shocker. Diane and I enjoyed spending time with you two at Vogel, and was looking forward to more this summer. We are so sad to here this. Allen if you need anything please let us know. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
skidrow Posted February 27, 2007 Share #23 Posted February 27, 2007 Somewhere there is a life eternal, somewhere there is a home above. There is no night without a dawning, beyond this death is God and LOVE. this was a poem by helen steiner rice that was sent to my dad after my mom passed away years ago... The last line brought some comfort to us. I hope it does for you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Black Ice Posted February 27, 2007 Share #24 Posted February 27, 2007 Our thoughts and deepest sympathies are with you. Like some of the others, we have not met but I cannot imagine what a loss this must be. Be strong. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kbran Posted February 27, 2007 Share #25 Posted February 27, 2007 Allen Beth and I are just stunned. I am so sorry to hear this. We cherish the visit with all of you in St. Charles and you and Debbie now hold a special place in our hearts. We so enjoyed meeting you and just can't believe this has happend. Everyone says this is family and it's so true that we feel like we have lost a dear member. Our hearts and prayers go out for you and just wish there was something that we could do. We don't always know the why's but there is Someone who does and He alone can give you comfort. I just can't imagine beeing in your place, but know you have freinds who are thinking about you, so just stay strong. Kenny and Beth Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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