skydoc_17 Posted January 6, 2009 Share #1 Posted January 6, 2009 "Uncle Don", my mother's brother passed this morning, he was 74. He was the patriarch of my family on my mother's side of the family. He had triple bypass surgery 7 weeks ago and contracted "Mersa" (an infection in his leg where they removed the vein for the bypass). I spent time with him last night, we talked of riding motorcycles, our friendship, my mom and the good times we had together. I wanted to thank him for the many years of friendship, and how thru his wisdom and guidance he made my life better and helped me to be a better man. But before I could utter a word about all that he squeezed my hand and thanked me for "Being there for him". Both of my parents have passed long ago, but I never really missed them as much because there was always "Uncle Don" to tell me what my mom might have said about a given situation or to tell me a story about my mom and dad doing one thing or another. Now, All I have left are the memories, great ones to be sure, But I will miss "that old man" as I called him, and we would both laugh! I am glad he is now pain free and surely he must be riding the big highway in heaven. The picture below is 5 generations of my family on my mother's side taken Thanksgiving Day 2008. I'll miss you "Old Man". Earl and Jean Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gunboat Posted January 6, 2009 Share #2 Posted January 6, 2009 earl sorry to hear of your loss, but thanks for sharing a little about your family. our loved one are never truely gone as long as we honor then in our hearts. best reguards don c. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Iowawegian Posted January 6, 2009 Share #3 Posted January 6, 2009 Just to let you know we're thinking of you. Family's are wonderful aren't they? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sarges46 Posted January 6, 2009 Share #4 Posted January 6, 2009 All the best to you and your family Earl. He sounds like he was a great guy and you have some wonderful memories to keep and share. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kenw Posted January 6, 2009 Share #5 Posted January 6, 2009 I'm sorry to hear of your loss. We will all be praying for you and your family, and comfort yourself in the thoughts and memories of his life! I don't kow what else to say except life will go on and he has left his footprint in the sand! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Snarley Bill Posted January 6, 2009 Share #6 Posted January 6, 2009 sorry to here about your uncle don. my father inlaw and me were pretty good buddies. bill Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ibents Posted January 6, 2009 Share #7 Posted January 6, 2009 Sorry to hear of your loss Earl, my condolences and prayers go to your family. Ian Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PBJ Posted January 6, 2009 Share #8 Posted January 6, 2009 So sorry Earl . My dad passed 24 years ago and my afther inlaw was like a dad to me my recent divorce has taken that away too. Keep his memories and he'll live within you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mini-muffin Posted January 6, 2009 Share #9 Posted January 6, 2009 Sorry for your loss. You were very lucky to have him. It's a shame more kids don't have someone like that to look up to. As you said he's in no pain now and you have all those wonderful memories that you can share. Margaret Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Squidley Posted January 6, 2009 Share #10 Posted January 6, 2009 I believe that you are looking at this fantastically, your celebrating his life, and sharing a little fragment of it with us. Thank you for thinking of us like that to share it. We grieve not for the one that is gone, but instead for ourselves. Like the others, it's sad to hear of your loss, but you had lots of great years to look back upon. How fortunate you are to have such a treasure. Irish Tombstone Prayer Death is nothing at all, I have only slipped away into the next room. Whatever we were to each other, that we are still. Call me by my old familiar name, speak to me in the easy way, which you always used to. Laugh as we always laughed together. Play, Smile, Think of me, Pray for me. Let my name be the household word that it always was, let it be spoken without effort. Life means all that it ever meant, it is the same as it ever was, there is absolutely unbroken continuity. Why should I be out of your mind, because I am out of your sight? I am but waiting for you, for an interval, somewhere very near, just around the corner. All is well, nothing is past, nothing is lost. One brief moment and all will be as it was before... Only better, infinietly happier, and forever we will all be one together with Christ. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SaltyDawg Posted January 6, 2009 Share #11 Posted January 6, 2009 Sorry for your loss. Our prayers are with you and your family. Salty and Rose Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cecdoo Posted January 6, 2009 Share #12 Posted January 6, 2009 Sorry for your loss Earl, you are a lucky guy to have someone like your Uncle in your life, hang on to those great memories. Take Care Craig Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ddoggma Posted January 7, 2009 Share #13 Posted January 7, 2009 Sorry about your loss. I'm down to one uncle myself. They were all very important to me and I miss them all. My last uncle has a old panhead and I hope to do some riding with him this summer. He just put the motor back in after a rebuild. All of them are heros of mine. As im sure old Don was to you. Hang in there. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Yammer Dan Posted January 7, 2009 Share #14 Posted January 7, 2009 Our Prayers go with him. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
VTirelli Posted January 7, 2009 Share #15 Posted January 7, 2009 Sorry for your loss............sounds like you might have to pick up where he left off and be thenew cool uncle. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cinderella Posted January 7, 2009 Share #16 Posted January 7, 2009 what a tribute to a mans life........that he had such a positive impact on yours. May he rest in peace and may you carry on what he gave to you! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
autopilot Posted January 7, 2009 Share #17 Posted January 7, 2009 Sorry for your loss(s). Take comfort in the knowledge that you had them.."for a time". God bless you and yours. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Yama Mama Posted January 7, 2009 Share #18 Posted January 7, 2009 I know how it is to lose someone you were so fond of. You obviously, will keep Uncle Don's legacy alive for everyone in your family. We will pray for you. Yama Mama Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Brake Pad Posted January 7, 2009 Share #19 Posted January 7, 2009 Blessed are those, who had the time to share with family members. Prayers being sent, for you and your family Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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