I got a call from my sister telling me that our nephew, our deceased brother's son was killed in a car accident. The driver of the other vehicle supposedly went to sleep. He was 42 yrs old. His father, my brother, died when he was 42 due to complications from diabetes. You just don't expect something like this to happen.
The good news is that when I called my son in LA to tell him about his cousin, one of the things he told me was that he has another grammy nomination for recording and mixing Beyonces' latest album. He already won a grammy award 2 yrs ago for recording/mixing her album "Lemonade".