Marriage is give and take. Some like me first wife only know how to take. After five years I called it quits. Now my second wife doesn't know when to STOP giving!!! So I have to make sure she gets a fair deal in this endeavor. She would go around bare foot and wearing a flour sack as long as I was happy. So I give her the things that I know deep in her heart she wants but refuses to ask for. It's not expensive gifts but just the little things in life that make her happy and I do through in the expensive gift now and then. And it makes us both happy.