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Talked to the family today. Dad's been saying that when he passes he wants his car to go to his girlfriend, so we're going to see if we can talk him into giving it to her now, which would mean she'll take possession of it. We're going to start gently pressuring him into getting rid of the car, and effectively giving up driving, and see how he responds before deciding what the next step should be. Thanks for the responses. I'll let y'all know how it goes. Probably be six weeks before we all get together in one place to talk to him as a family group, but at least all the kids are in agreement and on the same page.

​ No such age requirements.

Wife and I went over to Dads' apartment and did some cleaning up and reorganizing for him. He's soon to be 94 and still gets along pretty well, but has difficulty seeing. He has macular degeneration, and can still read if the print's large enough, which I guess is pretty good for his advanced age. His faculties are still mostly there....sometimes he can be forgetful and occasionally gets a little confused, but all in all he's still fully functioning and caring for himself. I live about 3 hrs from him and try to stop by as much as I can, and his closest assistance is his grand daughter who lives only a couple of miles from him. He has a girlfriend who lives about 45 minutes from him, and most weekends he drives to her house and they'll go to dinner, or church or the casino, and do whatever those crazy kids do. Here's the problem....... We're... (myself, and the other 3 children who care for him)... questioning whether he should be driving. I'm not sure that he should be driving, and have heard comments from others that live in his (elderly) apartment complex that his driving isn't so good. I myself have not seen him drive in years now, as every time I'm going somewhere with him he insists I drive. If he were to lose his ability to drive, he'd lose much of his freedom and independence, not to speak of his ability to see his girlfriend. I'm afraid that it'd break his spirit and it'd be the end of him. The place where he lives has a van that comes by to take the folks for groceries and some events, so he would have that option, but I don't know how much of a consolation that'd be. I recently brought up the subject, asking how he felt about driving......if he thought he was competent....and he said "Yes".... So, ....that's the question I've been contemplating..... At what point do you step in and take action? How would one go about it without creating bad feelings? Pic of Dad and I taken recently, then pic of Dad in WWII....not sure where he was in the pic. lol

I kinda like it. Saw a guy riding a scooter, pulling a clamshell trailer at 70 + mph just North of Columbus yesterday.

I thought "Loud pipes save lives" Don't they care about bikers lives???? Bikers lives matter.

Lisa and I made it home in one piece. Had a great time, ....looking forward to next year. We may try to put something together up at the cabin in North Central PA for next Summer. Thanks to all the great people who put this together. I'm sure it takes a lot of effort but it's much appreciated. Love the band.....Not too sure about the Black Death. LOL... Jonas...Thanks a bunch for coming and bringing some of the "flavor" of home. Now comes the chore of packing up / cleaning out / putting away the motorhome and Black Cherry. Thanks to everyone ! What a great bunch of folks !

PC crowd is trying to get teachers to stop referring to children as "boys and girls". To be considered "sane" by an insane world is nothing to be proud of.

Ya don't have to worry about it for little ol' me....... I was plannin' on winnin' that one....

​What.....no prize for best mascot this year???

Wife and I will be there. Planning on leaving Wednesday after work. Not sure if we'll drive straight up or maybe pull over somewhere for the night and catch a few ZZZZZssss. Either way, we'll be there Thursday Morning. Driving the motorhome, trailering the scoot.

Must be nice to be able to not remember leaving 1600 smackers lying around. If I'm missin' a $50 I get upset.......('till I find out the wife took it)

​Confucius say "Man who keep hand in pocket feel cocky all day".

Wow. Glad you're ok. Scary stuff in this day and age. When I'm confronted with the threat of attack, I generally stand in the corner, pee myself and suck my thumb while sobbing uncontrollably. That usually encourages them to let me be. Knowing a bit about your past, I'll bet he got more than he bargained for.

I'm with ya. I did 15 hours on the roof of a truckstop replacing 5 rooftop A/C units yesterday. People in the store complaining about it being too hot inside....I wanted to tell them ....."Get your A$$ on the roof for a while and see how ya like it up there". Couldn't leave until all 5 of the new units were up and running. Why they wanted to do a job like that in late July is a mystery to me. Still recovering from that job.

Did it a few years back and learnt a few things. You'll get burned out on the sales quicker than you think. There was more people and traffic than I expected. You may find a few great deals, but prices seem a bit higher. Harder to find those "great scores". Can't say that I'll never do it again, but it was as much a chore as it was fun. Everyone should do it at least once. ​Let us know how it goes.

LOL....reminds me....I had one that had gotten into the ceiling of the bedroom. A frame means not much attic, but once they get into the small space at the peak, they can travel throughout the house, on the other side of the drywall. Anyhoo, it was in the middle of the night, and I heard that little sucker scraping around in there and it was making me nuts. I got the bright idea to get the turkey seasoning injector, kinda like a big hypodermic needle, ...fill it with ammonia...and stick it through the ceiling drywall and spray it into that space, hoping to chase him outta there. The wife wakes up, with me standing on the bed, with this large hypodermic needle stuck through the ceiling and rotating it as I was spraying.....She says..."What the hell are you doing?" It took a bit to make her understand. Was kinda funny though. (Didn't work) I eventually ended up tearing out the entire ceiling,....blocking out the spots where I thought he may get in with metal lathe, then insulating and replacing the drywall. Went over the entire exterior with a fine tooth comb and blocked any potential entrances. That worked.

Thinkin' of ya. Sending good Karma your way. Hope things get better real quick .

Be advised....when they're that determined to get in, it may mean there's babies inside. Been there, done that with raccoons. Actually ripped off shingles and was tearing at the plywood to try to get onto the porch. Babies were up in the eaves and I didn't know it.

Sorry to hear of your / Eileens' troubles. Sure hope you keep on two wheels but who can blame ya if it's causing problems. My wife (Lisa) seems to enjoy our rides more than I do. I've always felt that long rides can be a bit of a chore, but that's outweighed by the wind therapy I get. I don't get to ride as much as I'd like, but I find that when I do, about 400 miles / 8 hrs is all I'm comfortable with. Any more than that, and I can't wait to get off the bike....and that's with my second gen, with pillowtop seats. Anyhoo, it was nice to see you guys at Daves' campout, even if it was just for a few hours. Never did get any service calls this weekend. That's ok,....got some stuff done around the house. BTW.....Your Midnight is the only bike my wife's ever said she liked more than my Black Cherry. lol....nice bike. Take care.

Absolutely, life gets in the way. You get 80 hrs vaca??? How'd ya swing that?....I get 40.... Went to MD, ...Planning on going to WNY....Gonna try to join some folks in Pataskala for a ride this weekend. When I retire I'll have more time....which reminds me, ...I'm runnin' late...gotta get to work.

Just a nickname a friend gave me 30 or so years ago. Uncle DJ = Dukin' John ......after a fight I was in. Uncle, I guess, 'cause I take care of my friends.

I saw this at Lowes' in Mt. Vernon, OH today. Cool to look at, but don't know that I'd wanna travel on it.

I never even heard 'em call the numbers. Musta' been up by the motorhome playin' cornhole. (And maybe drinkin' a little beer)

Ditto. Great people, great time. Thanks to Don for settin' this up, and to Eileen for being such a gracious hostess.

I have one from my 87 MKII that I pulled apart and welded back together a few years back. I replaced it, then cut it apart to see what was going on inside....pulled the perforated baffles out of it and welded the top back on. If my MKII will fit your MKI, you're welcome to it, with the condition that I either get it back when you've repaired yours, ...or gimme yours and I'll fix it when I get a chance and keep it. I'd like to have a spare to keep around. I live not too far from Mt. Vernon, OH, which should be about an hour South of you. PM me if you're interested.