Wrongway Posted February 23, 2008 Share #1 Posted February 23, 2008 Four days from now will mark a year since you left for Heaven. Not a day goes by that I don't think of you and weep for the hole in my heart. I know that you are at peace now and your demons are finally conquered. As the day draws closer, I still wonder why this all had to happen. What could I have done to prevent this? I know in my heart that when God wants you to be with Him, that it is time. That doesn't make it any better. We all still miss you so much. As the saying goes "time heals all wounds" but I'm not sure that I'm healing too well, just coping a tiny bit better than I was a year ago. The day to day struggle with life has gotten better, but oh how I miss my best friend and partner. There are so many things that I wish we could have enjoyed together this past year. You would have loved the Colorado Rockies and the trip into Canada. Even though I know it would have been too hot for you! I have plenty of pictures and memories that I will share with you when we see each other again. I'm so happy that you got to be a part of this club. They are more than a bunch of Yamaha riders, they are truly our family in the finest sense of the word. Without the love and friendship that I have gotten here, I don't know how I would have made it. I know that every time I get on the bike that you are there with me and watching over me. Even when I do something stupid you are there for me, and I still do plenty of stupid stuff. The pain will always be there but the good memories are there as well and all I have to do is remember them to bring a smile to my face. Until we see each other again, always know, I love you Debbie. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sweetnothing Posted February 23, 2008 Share #2 Posted February 23, 2008 Allan, We are here for you, and always will be!! The last time we talked, you knew it would hit you, but not sure when and how. I see that it has now! Remember the great times we all had with such a wonderful lady, and enjoy the times we had! I am greatful that we had some time with her!! My phone is still on 24/7 for you! Debbie, We miss you a lot, but as Allan says, we will show you all of the pictures, when we get back together some day!! to both of you!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sarges46 Posted February 23, 2008 Share #3 Posted February 23, 2008 Its going to be a tough day Allan. Our thoughts are with you all the time. We sadly, have a couple members going through this and personally I cant imagine what you guys are feeling. I hear the pain...but there is no way to imagine it. This family is the best and most supportive group of bandits there is. And thanks for caring enough let us share some of your feelings. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Yammer Dan Posted February 23, 2008 Share #4 Posted February 23, 2008 I know its going to be a rough day for you Allan. Remember we are here. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MamaMo Posted February 23, 2008 Share #5 Posted February 23, 2008 Allan we are all here for you. I'm sure there is not one that you can't call and talk to if you are needing to talk. The ones of us that was blessed to meet Debbie loved her. And boy are there going to be pictures to show. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tnventurer Posted February 24, 2008 Share #6 Posted February 24, 2008 My the lord give you peace my friend.....Fred Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gary N. Posted February 24, 2008 Share #7 Posted February 24, 2008 Allan, My thoughts are with you at this tough time my friend. I know how you are feeling and there is no other hurt like it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kbran Posted February 24, 2008 Share #8 Posted February 24, 2008 I know it's tough Allen. Can only imagin what you are going thru. I think of Debbie often and were glad we got to meet her. Will have you in our thoughts and prayer buddy. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lateralvibe Posted February 24, 2008 Share #9 Posted February 24, 2008 Allan, We are all here for you as always.Just a call or pm away. I pray for your comfort at this time. Lateralvibe Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hmoc75 Posted February 24, 2008 Share #10 Posted February 24, 2008 Allen...although i have never had the pleasure of meeting you or your beloved i will keep you in my prayers. take comfort in all the friends you have here. steve Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wrongway Posted February 24, 2008 Author Share #11 Posted February 24, 2008 Allan, My thoughts are with you at this tough time my friend. I know how you are feeling and there is no other hurt like it. Thanks Gary. As you know, there are a few of us here in the same situation. The reality is far worse than your worst nightmares can ever be. I thought I had a handle on this emotion stuff, but it really hit me today. I don't reach out like I should but when I do, the VR.org is there for me. All of you here have been so helpful and kind and willing to put up with me. I can't say it enough, you are truly the finest family a guy could have. I have been blessed to be associated with all of you and I know Debbie felt the same way. Ramona, you just don't know how much I appreciated the photos and memories I have from this wonderful group of misfits! Thanks everyone for all your support, prayers, and friendship. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RoadKill Posted February 24, 2008 Share #12 Posted February 24, 2008 My thoughts and prayers are with you. My door is always open and my cell phone is always on. Please don't ever hesitate to use either one. Jay Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Squidley Posted February 24, 2008 Share #13 Posted February 24, 2008 Allan, As always, as many times as it's been said, the phone is always on and we love you more than you know. As your heart aches know that our hearts too ache for you and the loss we all share with Debs departure. I look forward to seeing you this year and doing some more riding, Deb will be there with all of us. Thanks for trusting us with your heart Bro Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Eck Posted February 24, 2008 Share #14 Posted February 24, 2008 My thoughts and prayers are with you Al. If your ever passing Huntsville, you have a place of comfort here anytime! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nance56 Posted February 25, 2008 Share #15 Posted February 25, 2008 Allan, She was a great lady. I enjoyed the times we were together. Her great spirit will always live on. We are here for you if you need anything. We're only a phone call away. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wild hair 39 Posted March 2, 2008 Share #16 Posted March 2, 2008 allen: what can i say,take care,will see you be fore to long,,hope to do a lot of riding this season Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Snarley Bill Posted March 3, 2008 Share #17 Posted March 3, 2008 allan, linda and i miss debbie alot. we thought about her last night. linda remembered it had been a year. we're here for ya buddy. almost time to go riding again.bill Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
berg Posted March 3, 2008 Share #18 Posted March 3, 2008 Allen , God Bless You and Debbie , May you have peace in you heart. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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