painterman67 Posted July 30, 2009 Share #26 Posted July 30, 2009 hey Nate, Hate to hear about this. I'll keep you in my prayers. AS a member of the bigD club, believe all you have been told. At times you will fill likle you can't go on. Thats what we are for, so dont hesitate to lean hard. My first wife left me and I wanderd what I was going to do. WHy when and all the other questions. Best you can do is learn and love. those kids will need eben more of it now. In the end for me, what i thopught was the worst heartache I could have was not even near the worst. I enedede up with my solemate so all works out for the best. Lean hard and we will hold you and yours up. Hope our prayers help, David Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Uturn Posted July 31, 2009 Share #27 Posted July 31, 2009 Nate, Sorry for situation. Need anything or help etc., Let me know. MIKE aka Uturn Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
waterbug Posted July 31, 2009 Share #28 Posted July 31, 2009 Sorry to hear about this and I hate to see anyone go threw it! I just went threw it and she is still trying to drag me threw more and I think she has lost her mind also! You have to think what is best for you and your kids and look at the whole picture and sometimes that si very hard to do. Good luck!! You just have to do what ever it takes to keep the kids out of the middle of it and let them know you are there for them and you love them and they will be fine in the end. I had nobody to fall back on or help me out and didnt know anything about this site or these great people here, you can and will make it but it wont happen in a week or two so just take care of yourself you do have alot of freinds here. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gambler Posted August 5, 2009 Share #29 Posted August 5, 2009 Hang in there Buddy , you will get through this, & remember we are one big family , if you need anything let us know Gambler Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
footsie Posted August 5, 2009 Share #30 Posted August 5, 2009 I hate to hear about anyone seperating, seems like very few couple stay together anymore. But we can all pray for you, hope your pain can be eased soon. Gregg Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest seuadr Posted August 5, 2009 Share #31 Posted August 5, 2009 Will keep you in my prayers. this sort of thing is never easy, but i hope it goes easier for you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OutKast Posted August 5, 2009 Share #32 Posted August 5, 2009 Sorry man. Let me know if I can help in any way. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jus Monkeyin Around Posted August 5, 2009 Share #33 Posted August 5, 2009 Nate, Even though I do not know you I will say this, there is light at the end of the tunnel even if it dont look like it. Just take care of them kids it will get easier in time, Been through it several years ago. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers. :thumbsup2: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JimRoberts Posted August 5, 2009 Share #34 Posted August 5, 2009 As someone thats been in your shoes I can tell you trust your instincts, always put the kids first, and put your knees in the breeze every chance you can. Things have a way of working out for the best. Who knows, you get a 1st Gen you may never go back. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Skid Posted August 10, 2009 Share #35 Posted August 10, 2009 Sorry to hear of your situation. I've been there myself and they are no fun, but you will recover. I'll put you in my prayers and if you need anything or just to talk, you got my number.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tmodel Posted August 10, 2009 Share #36 Posted August 10, 2009 I like your priorities... concern for children first. When I divorced I spent 5 1/2 years raising my last daughter at home through high school. I know the pain and the commitment. Stay the course. Your scar will heal and one day you will feel like you have a life again. Be patient. Oh.. and buying a VStar cruiser in 05 after my daughter left for college didn't hurt either! tmodel Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FutureVentures Posted August 10, 2009 Share #37 Posted August 10, 2009 Because it's worth it! But seriously, best of luck to you and echoing what others have said, take the high road and never speak ill of your future ex to the kids, be there for the kids as much as you can. It's a long painful road but it does get better. Having said that however.... 9 years after my divorce, I'm NOW having to battle for custody as my X suddently moved out of state on a lark, court on Wednesday. Not fun. Again, good luck. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nkbjones Posted August 13, 2009 Author Share #38 Posted August 13, 2009 Thanks to all of you for your words of support and prayers. We are working through the negotiations ok at this point and hope that continues. I have refinanced my bike and will be able to keep it for a while at least. If things go the way I hope, I will not have to sell it, but even if I do I'll still be around here. I have meet so many great friends here and do truly appreciate all that this 'club' has given me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mini-muffin Posted August 13, 2009 Share #39 Posted August 13, 2009 Well glad things are going ok so far, hope it continues for you. You know I'm here anytime you need to talk. Glad you get to keep the bike. Margaret Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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