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To all of you, Haylie and I want to say Merry Christmas and thank you! So many of you sent me notes and helped us out I just couldn’t answer everyone and thank everyone. You all brought a smile to my face along with tears and I will never forget! My brother does a lot of traveling and he used some of his frequent flyer miles to book Haylie and I a trip home to my family in Ohio for Christmas. Tho we are getting excited about it, its bitter sweet in a way : ( Even tho my future is kind of “unknown” at this time, I am doing whatever I have to for us as best I can. It is starting to slowly get a little easier settling into being alone but all the emotional trash is still raw. I am having to make some tough decisions as I go along because of some bad choices someone else is making. My heart truly aches for him because he is blinded to how it will all end up coming back to hurt him some day. Please keep him in your prayers. I am truly trying to forgive and treat him as best I can, but believe me some days I lose my temper. Legalities are started and we will see where that goes after the 1st of the year : ( Thanks to you all Christmas will be better than I anticipated for Haylie, I didn’t want it to be any worse for her than it had to be. The way I see it, the past cpl years have been pretty tough for us and they can only get better now. I owe a lot to God and my faith, He has never failed me thru it all I hope all of you have a wonderful Christmas full of love and family and blessings! You all have a special place in my heart!
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I want to thank everyone for their support and prayers. I don't say much on here, I leave that to Cindy! Maybe when we get another computer I will be able to say more. Lol I just wanted to say THANKS! I have a strong wife and daughter and that's the reason this went so well. By Haylie telling mommy right away was a HUGE thing. Then Cindy handling it the way she did saved me from prison. And I want to say I am sorry for the way I talked to her for calling the police first. She did good I was just very angry at the time. I love you Cindy and I am sorry! And thank god Cindy called BACA! They have been so good to Haylie and good for all of us. Their presents makes Haylie so happy and Cindy and I enjoy them as well. I am positive Cindy and I will be members as soon as they will allow us. This past year has been very hard on our family, emotionally, physically and financially. But now we can work on the healing process. The hardest thing I have to deal with since the day it happened and it tears me up inside is knowing that I wasn't there to save my little girl! Thank you EVERYONE! Dale
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Here are the pics I took yesterday........ We all met at Bass Pro in Springfield, Mo and then went over to Lamberts to Eat for those not familiar with lamberts.....they have some awesome food....and are known for their throwed rolls.....meaning they throw them to you..they come out inthe dining area straight from the oven and the guys throw them to you....so you have to catch your rolls to eat them.....they are so good.... You pick a main course from the menu...prime rib, ribeye, chicken, etc.....you get 2 sides ( vegetables ) with it......then they come around to the tables with big pans of fried okra, fried potatoes, mac and tomatoes, black eyed peas and the rolls....all you want............that also means all you want of your main dish......if you can eat 3 steaks..you get 3 steaks..... you do not leave hungry...... After lamberts everyone headed home except allanh and dee and dale , haylie and I.....we all went back to bass pro to look around for a while and walk off dinner... 1. dale and snarley Bill 2. dooder and doodette 3. haylie 4. allanh and Dee 5. front window at bass pro 6. haylie and the grizzly 7. tellin lies at bass pro 8. allan and dee again 9. midnight venture and wife ( bill and cindy) 10 at lamberts 11. eating rolls 12. waiting for our food 13. dee catching a roll 14. snarley bill , linda and doodette ( sharon) 15. lamberts 16. dale , allan and haylie trying on hats at bass pro 17. allan and dale thought i should buy this shirt.....
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This was rather devastating.I have kind of worked my way thru it for now but Dale is pretty messed up over it. To tell the whole story, about a week before the incident happened to haylie, she had went over to the neighbors ( the new ones to neighborhood who live on the other side of the scum) to see if their little boy could play he is 4 1/2...his mother told haylie no she couldnt play with him for a while becuase he said she had touched his private part.....she came home told me i was i was blown away.I questioned her and she told me she accidentally touched him with her foot while they were swimming in our pool. I had intended to go talk to the mom and then everything happened and it got put on the back burner . The boys mother had stopped over after she found out what happened to haylie and we talked about it and it was my understanding that all was cool.....an innocent mishap while two young kids are playing. She was pretty flipped out about what happened to haylie, hugged me etc. Yesterday our detective calls me and wants to talk to me. Apparently the little boy is acting out and making accusations....he said he was in our house in H's bedroom and she took her clothes off in front of him and touched his private thru his pants. And then that Dale and I came in and took their picture with a camera. I was floored.....i said we didnt take his picture and the detectives and i went thru my camera and all the pics on my pc to make sure. I also said anytime he was in the house I shooed em back outside cause i make them play outside. of course then came more questions.....do you have porn on your computer? specifically child porn....NO.......would you let our experts go thru your computer if need be......YES. Dale was sleeping so they wanted to talk to him when he got up. He went down to the station and got the same questions more or less. They appologized for having to do this after all weve been thru but explained anytime a child makes a statement they have to check it out. Apparently they even sent the boy down for a forensic interview like Haylie had to do. They told us theye were a lot of discrepincies as to what the parents said he said and what he actually said at the interview. We can certainly understand the need and urgency to check this out but man o man can you imagine what we are feeling now. After we both finished they pretty much told us that most likely this is the last we will hear from them on it, I dont think they believe that any of it happened and that the MOM is a little off and over paranoid and may be putting ideas in the boys head. We dont understand why this woman would want to hurt us or accuse us of stuff...its like something happened to Haylie so now she is sure something has happened to her boy. Everytime things start to settle down a little someone throws another log on the fire. I questioned H again about all this and in fact the detective told me not to press her about it after i told him i asked her again.he doesnt want her worrying about anything else. so apparently they think this is a dead subject....lets hope so....Ive had enough. so this upset just caused us to say the h*** with it lets stay home....and the weather looks like rain most of the time for eureka springs and i dont need to be riding that far back and forth in the rain after the hospital time so here we sit again. My daughter is here from ohio now..so maybe dale and i will at least get a night out alone sometime this weekend. Id like to just run away and forget it all, but i know that doesnt work.
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Well it would appear that we will not be able to make it to ES this year. Cindy and I were really looking forward to getting away for a few days. Even paid to have the daughter fly out from Ohio to watch Haylie. Well anyway, I have to cancel the hotel and if anyone on here would like the room I can tell the hotel when I call to cancel our reservations. I will be calling around noon tomorrow central time to cancel. Dale
